A Long Night

As the night goes on you find yourself totally alone with your thoughts... You try every possible thing to not think about it, but it just wont leave you alone..
along with these thoughts is this feeling of suffocation... you know you are alive but still the reality is so disturbing you just cannot accept it...
And you find yourself asking that what exactly was your fault? Why did you had to meet the same fate over n over?
Why did the ones who were supposed to be your source of happiness had to give you this pain?
Where would you go ? Who will you share your problems with? When the ones you shared your everything with were the who were the cause of it all?
And on top of that you just have to fake a smile and say everything is totally fine when in reality your world has crashed down right in front of you...
Its like a betrayal you did not expect... but you can't blame them

either since you are just stupid... you are stupid enough to let them do it to you, its like you practically gave them a shovel to dig up a grave and bury you right in there and then forget all about you

And the worst part is that you cant tell anyone about it cause it will ruin their image in the eyes of others so its like protecting them while killing yourself internally...
How will you pass the night when you are completely aware of your serious anxiety attacks which are severe enough to make you lose control of yourself and cause the whole house to come running from their sleep?
And what exactly can you explain them? Why are you behaving in such a psychotic manner?
when you yourself are trying so hard to deny that any of it actually happened to you...but this strong pain in the chest wont let you be at peace nor would this throbbing in your head leave you alone along with this shortness of breath... its like your whole body can feel the pain of this betrayal... What can one do under such circumstances?

Trapped in Love

I am sure many of us stays in a relationship despite how much the person they love hurts them

they cant seem to get out of that relationship or get themselves to break up with that person, even if that person is just toying with them, taking them for granted or taking advantage of their affection or perhaps that other person is too immature and cant seem to understand how much they are hurting us unconsciously but still ... 

like an idiot we love them too much to let go of them regardless of everything...

 This is for all of you ...

For Those Who Cant Read My Handwriting here it is:

Like A Voodoo Doll You Hold My Heart

Poking And Hurting Or Caressing Softly

You're The One To Hold The Strings

Making Me Crave You and Torment Me From Within

You Very Well Know All The Tricks Around

Just A Little Sweetness Is All It Takes
To Keep Me By Your Side Like A Dog Sitting On The Ground
But Is It All Am I To You?
A Little Puppet To Dance For You?
Satisfying Your Needs Whenever You Want
With No Say Or Whatsoever And Follow All Your Commands?

Sure My Love For You Is No Lie
But If That's How You Wanna Play This Game Than I Beg To You
Please Crush This Heart And Let Me Die...

Written and © S.Naila Ahsan

The Caged Bird

What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

By William Henry Davies

Ever since i was a kid this line made an impact on me.

 In this life... when in the eyes of others its like u have everything in the world

and things would be going according to how any girl would wish for

everyone around you making decision thinking that this is what u really wanted 

but is it really so?

did they ever bothered asking the person in question what she wants?

  

i am sure this post might be sounding a bit ungrateful as if throwing away the blessing that we have 

but 

In this life is happiness defined? i mean sure there are things which are very nice and all

but perhaps we don't want that happiness? perhaps we want to create our happiness on our own?

the Definition of happiness is different for everyone

nothing in life comes free...

not even the path others choose for us is as good as it appears to them

what do they know anyways? do they even know what difficulties that path has for her and how much she endures in order to bring forth that smile in that path which they assume as happiness 

in the end its not them who has to live this life. 

they have no idea what it feels like to be used and thought of as an option to use when you have nothing else or when you just want to make yourself feel better by her inspiring words

they don't know anything at all

they think that they can cage a bird that wants to be free

they think she would be satisfied settling for whatever is in front of her without experiencing how it feels like to spread her wings in the sky 

but that's impossible  

no matter how much love and care you give her or how good of a food u feed her

 the freedom to find her own path and hunt her own food is what will make her the happiest 

But the question is... how to say this to the people who loves her?
how to make them understand that she is not at all happy with the way life is turning out for her? 

Instead its suffocating every single day pretending to be happy when in reality all that doesn't make a single bit difference on her 

How to tell them that this is not at all what she wished for without disappointing them or making them sad

The only thing she wish for is live her life in freedom without binding herself to anything or anyone

Why cant they understand this simple thing?

 

Happy Valentines Day !

Ok..
So the most Fret over and largely celebrated day among the teens as well as anyone who values love more than anything is finally here xP

I honestly never celebrated this day (Forever Alone Girl) and i don't really know how it must feel to spend this day with the one you love the most but still...

 For all those who truly loved someone with all their heart regardless of all the good and bad in them this song by Avril is one of the best one to express your feelings
For me also, this song hold not just one but few very precious memories.
Even if things are different now, these things can never ever change.
And of course this is for all the anime lovers out there also *-*
Lol i guess i am getting carried away xD 

Anyway, i don't know about you guys but for me this day has been unusually boring , had to empty out my room for painting, entertain my newly shifted little cousin and spent rest of the time crafting hearts with nobody to give it to :P (height of being forever alone :P)
But at-least i am not the only person alone today
Aligarh has been infected with swine flu preventing people from going out
So as a 'certain someone' said that if we cant enjoy this day today then why should they? xD

Anyway i hope everyone had a nice Day today ^^
and here is a little example of my lonesome heart xD
A Very Happy Valentine's Day everyone ♥\( *-* )
May You have an unforgettable day xD

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Boring Start of February

February already here, and for everyone its time to get busy preparing for Valentine's day with their certain someones or to go find one.

And for a forever alone girl like me, the start of Feb only means that its time to get serious and study much more seriously since the day of the entrance exam of Aligarh Muslim University is rather near

I have no time to write any blog posts either lately let alone celebrate Valentine's day or even the Single Awareness day.

Gotta stop myself from getting addicted to manga during this period also T.T
Any normal Otaku can understand my feelings right now that how difficult it is to stay away from my precious anime world.

Its soooo damn boring right now studying these stupid subjects which makes me sleepy just looking at them and by restricting myself from doing anything which may get me off track from my goal, even took break from my gaming during this preparation period, and this boredom brings out the normally dead artist outta me by doodling around xD

Rebound Relationships

Why do people opt for rebound relationships? 

Specially when they aren't even over their past?

Loneliness? to kill off emptiness by having someone around? Need someone to baby them out? Or falsely telling themselves that they are in love when in reality in every step with the current one they can only see the past rather than the person who is there for them?

What exactly is the point of  it anyway?

I mean if you aren't really over your past then you cant really fully love the person who is there for you

I know that it isn't easy forgetting our past and to be honest nobody can ever fully forget it but still...
How exactly is it fair on the person who is there with you in the present?

People don't understand that in the process of this whole thing they are just playing with the feelings of the person who is caring for them.

You may think that the other person isn't aware of it but you are wrong, they know all of it yet they silently stay with you, support you in everything, regardless of how much it might be hurting them because they truly care about you.

Nevertheless, its as good as using them for your own sake , and hurting them while trying to heal your own self
And i don't think that is fair at all.

I believe that we should fully let go of the past before moving on to next relationship or go for a rebound because these things can make neither you nor the other person happy  and it ends not too greatly for either of you.

What Does It Take To Forget?

I guess its easy to live life somewhat with positivity without looking back and moving forward
but is it easy to remove certain things from our memories  altogether? I suppose that's a stupid question to ask but I still wonder

how many of us can forget things and also remove them from our unconscious mind?
Is it even possible to do so?

I don't really know much about spirituality or however these things works

But when we have long forgotten things in our lives, why do they still haunt us in our dreams?

The tears which we never shed when the painful incident occurred

Why do they fall in the dreams so uncontrollably?
Why is it that it feel like we have no pain and our feelings all cold and we are living our life happily and positively
Yet in our dreams it hurts so much that you cant breathe?

I keep telling everyone that its pointless running after something which you know you cant have
So why do we still do that?
Why cant we just grasp the Happiness which is right ahead of us?
Why does this unconscious mind takes over and makes us stagger around the negative path when we aren't even aware of it?

Lol
This might be my first most confusing post ever for certain people
who are just as clueless as i am when it comes to these things xD

Finally Happy New Year!

Finally the long awaited year end is here

This year has been extremely eventful

and full of all sort of emotions

a little bit of heart break, a little bit of sadness, exam stresses :P but after that it was all happiness, excitement, togetherness, and creating so many memories with everyone precious to me

i know that these years would come and go and these people may change or not be what they were back then but what we had all had in those moments shall mean everything to me and be remembered for a lifetime.

This may seem like a mere tissue but it is very precious to me
there are people from that time whose name might not be mentioned here but still those are also just precious.

 

This year taught me a lot.
I lost some really precious people who meant so much to me but i am not sad about it because they also taught me some important lessons and i would like to thank them for it
And losing people isn't the only thing i got.
instead i gained  people who became such great friends and changed everything for me when i had least expected it.
Became my strength and encouraged me when i needed it the most.

On My Birthday which i was expecting to be a lonely depressing one, i got a surprise parcel from some unknown person and i was shocked and close to tears when i saw  this inside.
This may look like an ordinary mug but this is a magic mug with a picture he attached on it from my childhood times with me and my close group of cousins and sisters :)
This was so far the best birthday gift i could ever receive.
This was a surprise from my brother Ashay and this was the first start of all the good things happening to me in this year.
Thank You so much bro for making it all so special for me :)

And the end of this year has been used in the best possible way.
An all girls day out with my friends and sister :D
watched movies hangout and even met these little cuties xD

At the end of it all
i would say that this year ended with 0 regrets and only positivity :)
Hope this new year will be much greater than the previous one
and create much more beautiful memories :)

Happy New Years everyone!

Merry Christmas to all!!!!

 

 Merry Christmas Everyone!
i got late in making this post T.T
but what can i do?
its so damn cold and makes anyone lazy xD

This is my 5 years old niece Noor getting over excited after seeing the whole Christmas decoration for the first time LOL

  For the first time in her life she met a Santa, and that santa even gave her free toffees so it was like a heavenly day for her :P

She even dropped the gift from the counter in her over excitement xD

This Tiny Santa on display was soo sooo cute

 And this Christmas Tree was the best and the most Beautifully Decorated one
They were selling really yummy special plum Christmas cakes over there
even  tho it was a bit pricy but it was worth a try :D

 Here she is again
at her mischief xD

and yet another beautiful decoration  by the People of Great Value Mall

And this girl just wouldnt stand still for a decent photo
getting all excited yet again :)

 here is a somewhat decent picture where she is thankfully not moving and concentrating too hard on which balloon to take from here :P

 And this the only single pic of mine though its so blur i am barely visible here xD

 And as the day had been going so great and beautiful for my Niece
my dad had decided a surprise for my mother.

 He took her to this store and gifted her awesome coats
my mother was like soooo surprised and she was like
today is not anybody's birthday or anniversary xD

She was tooo happy
and one of the coat she chose was something i had my eyes on 

too bad for T.T
but well while they were too busy buying coats here

 i was busy reminiscing the time i came to this building the first time.
It was one memorable day of somebody's birthday :)

so in all that i lost my chance to buy anything >.<

 Later on when we came to petrol pump for some gas, we saw this another Santa
the previous Santa at the mall was a female and this one was a male
and he gave toffees not only to baby but to everyone in car Also xD

here he is taking out toffees :D

 Here he is trying to shake hands with her and she is getting so shy shy
hehe

 And here all grinning and shaking hands with him xD

Yet again the smile just wouldn't go off her face

doesn't seem to be letting go of the hand of the Santa
totally unaware of the traffic behind her xD

Finally we had to pull her back in the car and the Santa was Waving at us

Overall it was a great day for all of us
and first time Seeing how people celebrate Christmas In Aligarh City :)

Those of You who might be interested in Some awesome Christmas Items and ways to make this holiday season even more special should give this blog a try http://ourholidayshopping.blogspot.in/

It has some really Great stuff here

And last but not the least

Here's a bracelet i made on my own for the first time
I know this is totally unrelated to Christmas post but too lazy to make a separate post for xD
and with all the colourful Christmas Decorations, this matches well with it xD