The Caged Bird

What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

By William Henry Davies

Ever since i was a kid this line made an impact on me.

 In this life... when in the eyes of others its like u have everything in the world

and things would be going according to how any girl would wish for

everyone around you making decision thinking that this is what u really wanted 

but is it really so?

did they ever bothered asking the person in question what she wants?

  

i am sure this post might be sounding a bit ungrateful as if throwing away the blessing that we have 

but 

In this life is happiness defined? i mean sure there are things which are very nice and all

but perhaps we don't want that happiness? perhaps we want to create our happiness on our own?

the Definition of happiness is different for everyone

nothing in life comes free...

not even the path others choose for us is as good as it appears to them

what do they know anyways? do they even know what difficulties that path has for her and how much she endures in order to bring forth that smile in that path which they assume as happiness 

in the end its not them who has to live this life. 

they have no idea what it feels like to be used and thought of as an option to use when you have nothing else or when you just want to make yourself feel better by her inspiring words

they don't know anything at all

they think that they can cage a bird that wants to be free

they think she would be satisfied settling for whatever is in front of her without experiencing how it feels like to spread her wings in the sky 

but that's impossible  

no matter how much love and care you give her or how good of a food u feed her

 the freedom to find her own path and hunt her own food is what will make her the happiest 

But the question is... how to say this to the people who loves her?
how to make them understand that she is not at all happy with the way life is turning out for her? 

Instead its suffocating every single day pretending to be happy when in reality all that doesn't make a single bit difference on her 

How to tell them that this is not at all what she wished for without disappointing them or making them sad

The only thing she wish for is live her life in freedom without binding herself to anything or anyone

Why cant they understand this simple thing?

 

Merry Christmas to all!!!!

 

 Merry Christmas Everyone!
i got late in making this post T.T
but what can i do?
its so damn cold and makes anyone lazy xD

This is my 5 years old niece Noor getting over excited after seeing the whole Christmas decoration for the first time LOL

  For the first time in her life she met a Santa, and that santa even gave her free toffees so it was like a heavenly day for her :P

She even dropped the gift from the counter in her over excitement xD

This Tiny Santa on display was soo sooo cute

 And this Christmas Tree was the best and the most Beautifully Decorated one
They were selling really yummy special plum Christmas cakes over there
even  tho it was a bit pricy but it was worth a try :D

 Here she is again
at her mischief xD

and yet another beautiful decoration  by the People of Great Value Mall

And this girl just wouldnt stand still for a decent photo
getting all excited yet again :)

 here is a somewhat decent picture where she is thankfully not moving and concentrating too hard on which balloon to take from here :P

 And this the only single pic of mine though its so blur i am barely visible here xD

 And as the day had been going so great and beautiful for my Niece
my dad had decided a surprise for my mother.

 He took her to this store and gifted her awesome coats
my mother was like soooo surprised and she was like
today is not anybody's birthday or anniversary xD

She was tooo happy
and one of the coat she chose was something i had my eyes on 

too bad for T.T
but well while they were too busy buying coats here

 i was busy reminiscing the time i came to this building the first time.
It was one memorable day of somebody's birthday :)

so in all that i lost my chance to buy anything >.<

 Later on when we came to petrol pump for some gas, we saw this another Santa
the previous Santa at the mall was a female and this one was a male
and he gave toffees not only to baby but to everyone in car Also xD

here he is taking out toffees :D

 Here he is trying to shake hands with her and she is getting so shy shy
hehe

 And here all grinning and shaking hands with him xD

Yet again the smile just wouldn't go off her face

doesn't seem to be letting go of the hand of the Santa
totally unaware of the traffic behind her xD

Finally we had to pull her back in the car and the Santa was Waving at us

Overall it was a great day for all of us
and first time Seeing how people celebrate Christmas In Aligarh City :)

Those of You who might be interested in Some awesome Christmas Items and ways to make this holiday season even more special should give this blog a try http://ourholidayshopping.blogspot.in/

It has some really Great stuff here

And last but not the least

Here's a bracelet i made on my own for the first time
I know this is totally unrelated to Christmas post but too lazy to make a separate post for xD
and with all the colourful Christmas Decorations, this matches well with it xD